2.22.0 Fixes and catch-up

Core

• Expose connection outgoingPendingMessageCount and outgoingPendingBytes #1412 @scottf

JetStream

• Add publish header "Nats-Expected-Last-Subject-Sequence-Subject" #1401 @scottf
• Add publish header "Nats-Expected-Last-Subject-Sequence-Subject" part b. #1402 @scottf
• [Fix] Reset cached consumer info when re-making ordered consumers #1405 @scottf
• consumers - metadata comparison #1410 @scottf

ObjectStore

• ObjectMeta metadata #1399 @scottf

Misc

• Clarify documentation for JetStreamSubscription #1400 @davidmorley
• Build (CI/CD) Stuff #1404 @scottf
• Update version of bouncycastle to resolve CVE-2025-9341 #1406 @vkolomeyko