fix serveral issues

[hugozhu]

issue 1:
when apisix-seed restart empty hosts might be returned, apisix may return 5xx during that peroid.

issue 2:
use 'labels' to tag route with nacos service discovery.
_discovery_type and _service_name is not compatible in 'upstream'

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