[7.17](backport #15623) ci: switch to custom setup-go action in windows

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Motivation/summary

windows runner has significantly slower disks and restoring the cache is wasting a huge amount of time

Checklist

• Update CHANGELOG.asciidoc
• Documentation has been updated

For functional changes, consider:

• Is it observable through the addition of either logging or metrics?
• Is its use being published in telemetry to enable product improvement?
• Have system tests been added to avoid regression?

How to test these changes

Related issues

See actions/setup-go#495
Slightly related to #15581

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #15623 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

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